Showing posts with label sad. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sad. Show all posts

Thursday, July 5, 2012

A Sick Buddha

The four days without power really took a toll on both dogs but especially on Buddha. Even after the AC was on, he was lethargic, didn't want to eat his food and would not drink water. It broke my heart to see him that way. I checked for all the outward signs of dehydration such as skin elasticity and whether or not his gums were moist. I kept his temperature down with cold, wet towels and occasional baths but to no avail. Finally I knew I had to get drastic. Since he was not eating (which is insane!) or drinking water, I gave him another chance. He rejected both things. So I took the doggy syringe and loaded it with Powerade. I had no choice but to open his mouth and squeeze the Powerade down his throat. He hated every moment of it but I didn't stop there! I tempted him with some yummy dog food and after he got the taste for it, I dropped some in a full bowl of water. He was reluctant at first but then he started fishing for the pieces of food. This in turn led to ingestion of the cold water and within a couple hours he was spunky again.

The power outages really got to all of us but I can't even imagine what the boys went through. I'm glad it's over!

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Scorched Earth

Divorce ravages everything. All the joy and beauty that existed between two people when they decided to embark on forever is smashed to bits and pieces in divorce proceedings. Remember that beautiful furniture you picked with such zest with your significant other? If you both loved it so much then there is a great chance that you will be fighting tooth and nail to get it if you are going through the divorce. And for what? Memories perhaps, revenge partially?

Today a client sat before me with deep misery in his eyes. He has to file for bankruptcy after maxing out all his credit cards and losing all assets due to his recent divorce. There are also the monthly maintenance fees that must be made under the divorce decree. Don't stop making those payments because the courts will get you GOOD. There is nothing left in his paycheck after it has been purged by court mandated garnishments. Many people get divorced and for some it is truly necessary. I have rarely seen a divorced person who does not get out with battle scars. People fight over the pettiest things but then there are real issues as to who gets the house, the car, the kids, THE DOGS! Yes, DOGS! Dogs are property and can be awarded to one person over the other. Clearly, there are details involved in who gets what and what is a marital asset versus personal but I would be devastated if my dogs were taken from me and on the other hand, separating them would be horrible for their mental health. Yes, dogs get depressed and have anxiety problems too.

This is not legal advice but if you are going through a divorce you should really consider getting an attorney ESPECIALLY if the other side has one. I have seen too many people sign documents that they did not fully understand only to be committed to that piece of paper for many years to come.